Love Passionately, Love Authentically! William Shakespeare wrote To Thine Own Self by True by Evye Stanten

There is a lot people can fake, a lot of lip service and I am not talking about the sexy kind but the phony kind kissing ass so all I can say to you is love passionately and authentically.

I do not believe in main stream ideas of love like marriage because more than half of marriages end in divorce and there are plenty of marriages that stay together for economic reasons and or the kids...whatever I believe in live and let live as along as what you do is between consenting adults and you are not hurting anyone.

Really who's business is it and who really cares anyway.

Even with celebrity scandals, people check in but really truly don't care and why should they.

"To thine own self be true."

wrote Williams Shakespeare and by the way he could be quite bawdy and earthy as well as intellectually brilliant.

To thine own self be true and embrace your passion and even better if you can share your passion in some original authentic way with your lover.

Maybe that way is just being you and the gentlest sweetest kiss and a hug.  It doesn't have to be Sexual Olympics or the newest hottest sex toy but just an authentic expression of love or lust or both.

Orgasms like no others the after Orgasm can only be described as Piano Concerto No. 5 in E-flat Major, Op. 73

I am not a big classical music fan.  I love Rock and Roll, Ella Fitzgerald, wild mix of anything with passion and fire but that after state -- post-Orgasm can only be described as Beethoven Piano Concerto No. 5 in E-flat major, Op. 73....even if it is just the beginning.  Take a listen....The music takes you to this other place, a higher state and everything feels so right.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ix2Zas6eo2I&feature=related

If  I were to attempt  to put the state of being in to music,  that amazing feeling during but also after....when you think to yourself I don't want to change my sheets for as long as possible....

http://evyestanten.blogspot.com/2010/12/sue-cady-york-orgasms-come-in-one-size.html

Orgasms come in all sizes and they are all beautiful, like women.  Evye Stanten

Hollywood's Beethoven flick "Immortal Beloved" how mind blowing that Beethoven wrote masterpieces when he was stone death and could not hear his own music.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WS9MTQqVUFY

Sex, passion and love are driving forces that can be communicated to a lover, to an audience if you are an artist via your music, writing or paintbrushes in the most unique expressions to the simplest and purest forms...even just with the tenderness of kisses....  For women orgasms can be defined in unlimited ways as can be loving expressions.  Creativity is infinity  for me in terms of this kind of expression and the post-feeling is Beethoven Piano Concerto No. 5 in E-flat major, Op. 73...you have to be numb not to get what I saying...listen!  I love the loudness of passionate expressions and being in the zone but I love the quietness of that after place where you are still in that zone...and everything, everything feels so right, so good.

http://www.examiner.com/love-and-marriage-in-national/love-daily-music-for-the-soul-nov-22-2010

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Anna Nicole Smith Wiki Leaks -- Anna a political storm that may have brought down the Bahamas gov.

If only Anna Nicole Smith could give us a sound byte from her reality show in the Heavens on the breaking news, move over US government, make room for  Anna Nicole's Wiki Leaks and the Bermuda government has to be reeling if there is anyone left after Hurricane Anna.

Malin Akerman replaces Lindsay Lohan in Linda Lovelace film Inferno moves forward by Evye Stanten

Lindsay Lohan may have gotten fired but the film makers did wait quite a while for her to get her act together to star in this biographical flick on Linda Lovelace and her starring role in the famous porn film which I have never seen called Deep Throat.

Just a brief glimpse into Lovelace's life especially the porn years where horrifying including the claim she was violently abused by her husband and forced to film those scenes.

Brian Grazer admits to having a deep fascination with the porn film "Deep Throat" so I gather the famed producer leaped at the opportunity to produce the documentary "Inside Deep Throat".
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inside_Deep_Throat

Of course, Deep Throat was the name given to the famed courageous whistle blower (deep cover)  in the true story of Carl Bernstein and Bob Woodward's investigative reporting that brought down Richard Nixon, later made in to a book and than a film "All the President's Men".

"Deep Throat",  the words alone must be deeply evocative  -- those words "Deep Throat" are compelling for some guys....for some reason.... (perhaps why Belladonna has a how to instructional at the end of one her DVDs).

I have a funny feeling "Inferno" will do quite well at the box office...I have a deep, deep feeling about the success of this movie for some reason.


For anyone following my blog posting you know one of my themes is that fine line between Hollywood and the Porno-Wood -- just joking the Porn industry.  Well writing this posting underscores Hollywoods obsession with porno r dare I saw Hollywood's love affair with the Porn Industry.


http://evyestanten.blogspot.com/2010/12/do-movie-directors-secretly-long-to-be.html
http://evyestanten.blogspot.com/2010/12/jenna-jameson-belladonna-tera-patrick.html

Politician Vs. Porno -- Porno Industry Political Industry -- Political industry screws so many more people for money by Evye Stanten

When you think how many politicians, their lobbyist buddies, big businesses f////d the American People and People around the world for money, it makes porno look wholesome.

Think of what Bill O'Reilly called Jenna Jameson.  It's laughable.

I am pro-women and pro-sexual empowerment.  I am against anything exploitive and harmful to women and girls.  Jameson says the porn industry is a hard industry and I am sure that is an understatement but politicians have done even worse and they are suppose to be serving the people not exploiting them in the worst of way.  Seems like the political arena has really become a political industry and how ironic because the USA has a massive, massive debt. yet our politicians and pals grow richer so someone is getting screwed and that is the American people and also people that look to our Country for help and are not getting it.

Screen shots of Tera Patrick and Belladonna's Facebook page with my article "Jenna Jameson, Belladonna, Terra Patrick: women porn stars and media moguls? New Genre of Women Media Moguls

http://evyestanten.blogspot.com/2010/12/jenna-jameson-belladonna-tera-patrick.html
Jenna Jameson, Belladonna, Tera Patrick: women porn stars and media moguls? New Genre of Women Media Moguls

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Belladonna/106112666087595?sk=wall

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Tera-Patrick/105621482804931?v=wall
Just so proud to have my work posted on their Facebook and within a week of just creating this blog.

http://evyestanten.blogspot.com/2010/12/evye-stantens-piece-on-porn-stars-jenna.html

Lady Gaga responds to the repeal of "Don't ask, don't tell." by Evye Stanten

http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1654589/20101218/lady_gaga.jhtml

Like Lady Gaga I am straight and a big supporter of equal rights for gays and everyone!

I am mistaken for gay or asked from time to time am I gay and I joke about coming out as a straight person.

Bravo.  Don't ask, don't tell should have never been approved in the first place.

Here is the Lady Gaga quote from MTV below...

"Can't hold back the tears+pride. We did it!i Our voice was heard + today the Senate REPEALED DADT. A triumph for equality after 17 YEARS," she wrote.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40733618/ns/politics-capitol_hill/

To get a better look at the photo click on link above.

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Do Movie Directors secretly long to be Porno Film makers the way Porno Directors long to make Hollywood Films? Just look at the sex scene in The Black Swan? by Evye Stanten

I am a Darren Aronofsky fan, at  least of his first film "Pi" and "The Wrestler".  "Requiem for a Dream" was powerful but not a film I would want to watch over and over.   Aronofsky has a very strong and loyal fan base.  Sex is a big issue for Aronofsky and like so many Independent and Hollywood directors I can't help but think he and they deep down long to make porno films just the way porno film makers long to make mainstream Hollywood films.   Aronofsky's film The Fountain was about love so that guy has depth and intelligence and he is a lover not a guy with a porno mind-set but watching the muff diving scene in the Black Swan made me think this guy is just longing to make some artsy porno film the way porn films have been resembling feature films these days.  Yes, there is more free gonzo stuff on the world wide web but need I mention Pirates 1, 2 and 3.   This is from number 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sEOhomgYoJE

There has always been some cross-over both ways and not the USA but the East Coast and LA crowd are far more accepting of that ultra-thin line between porno and Hollywood and Independent film.

Topic of discussion between Jack Gyllenhaal and Anne Hathaway was hey do we actually have sex.  They decided not to but there are those actors that do do it but they are not considered porno stars -- they don't consider their work porno and they get paid Hollywood bucks.  For fans you can search the internet and look for articles maybe here.....http://americanidolizing.com/gossip/Anne-Hathaways-and-Jack-Gyllenhaals-most-important-scenes-from-Love-Other-Drugs-4107049.html  I confess it is of little interest to me.

I have yet to see the film but the fine line between porno and film does fascinate me and the quality of the work as well.

What is the line between porno and film.  The Last Tango in Paris remained on the art cinema side and French Films are so graphic yet remain "art".    There are countless examples to talk about but I don't have the time to write about all them let alone cut, paste and link!

http://www.oddfilms.com/blog/movie-recommendations/13-porn-stars-in-mainstream-movies/

See the above  blog posting that mentions the Hollywood film  "Zack and Miri Make a Porno" and such cross-over stars from porno crossing over to Hollywood -- Sasha Grey among others.

Where is the line between Hollywood-Independents and Porno.  Is the line going to completely fade one day?

To a sexually repressed, self hater, everything is porno, in the worst of ways, isn't it?  

Pamela Madison Women Sexuality Center and Hearts Cracked Wide Open: Tantra Sex and the Fire Breath by Evye Stanten

http://www.womensexualitycenter.com/

A clip from Hearts Cracked Wide Open

http://www.filmbaby.com/films/2430

Pamela Madison is beautiful.  She is smart and she wants to help people to sexually heal if need be and come to a place of peace and sexual empowerment.  I first saw her in Hearts Cracked Wide Open discussing sex and performing the fire breath orgasm.  She also made me laugh.  She said that when a neighbor heard she was moving he let her know how much he would miss her.  For those who don't know the Fire Breath Orgasm involves breathing but also emitting a lot of passion sounds as part of the build up and release/

Hearts Cracked Wide Open is described as a lesbian film but it is not.  The film is mostly gay women but also has straight women and is directed towards anyone who wants to raise their Sexual IQ, that cares about women and might want to learn more about connecting with a lover what ever your gender or sexual preferences.

http://www.heartscrackedopen.com/

Jenna Jameson, Belladonna, Tera Patrick: women porn stars and media moguls? New Genre of Women Media Moguls

Jenna Jameson was a ground breaker becoming the first female porn star to also make herself over in to a media mogul.  She successfully brokered a deal to sell her business to Playboy for an undisclosed sum of money. 

Jameson was interviewed by Bill O'Reilly and she clearly came out on top.   As stupid as he was with her, he also was a patron of her work whether he wanted to own up to it or pretend her videos just fell in to his lap or DVD player.  Isn't it always that way?

Jenna Jameson was brilliant to make the move to sell when she did and I can only try to  imagine the amount of money she made in a ground breaking savvy business deal.   Like great sex, brokering prosperous business deals are all about timing.   

The porn bubble, like Silicon Valley hit a wall, went bust, not for everyone but with all the free porn on line, put it this way, Hugh Hefner may sell all or  part of his Playboy Mansion because he needs cash, lots of it.  (Not the sole reason for his immense debt. but a factor for all in the porn world).

I made the analogy to Silicon Valley but plenty of tech and porn businesses are still thriving and enduring.  The porn industry has been around a lot longer and like all our lives the tech industry has impacted the porn industry for better or worse.  It is your call.

Getting back to the media mogul women of porn -- that I believe are all retired at this time....

Belladonna, the only rising porn woman mogul not to have breast implants...seems to do the "he loves me, he loves me not" but(t) with "retirement" -- "now she is retired, now she is not"....her fans want her in front of the camera but she, the last time I checked, had retired to work behind the camera.   Terra Patrick did not need breast implants but the women of porn are convinced they can make far more money with implants, a painful operation that in  my opinion is mostly acceptable self mutilation.  An exception would be breast implants for a breast cancer survivor.  

Belladonna is a fierce sexual fire ball, no limits, no boundaries and a  sexual presence like no other.   Some men have been known to lose an erection around her because of this small beauty's intensity is intimidating.

I don't know how much Belladonna is worth but Tera Patrick made a fortune which she discloses in the end of her new book with her now ex-husband and business partner who she seemed to still love very much  but expressed concerns he used her to get in to the porn business.  He ex-husband made a less than loving comment that ended up in The New York Post on Page 6 stating Tera doesn't even like sex.

The porn industry is about illusions as much as it is about entertainment and big bucks no different than the cover of Vogue...what you see is not reality.   More than lighting is used to enhance the sexual performances and what you are seeing including the famous shots of men achieving orgasm made for the male audience has been known to be enhanced as well...The films made for women porn consumers don't have these shots at all because women do not find that kind of display as arousing as men if at all...There is a big difference between porn made for men and women but what has changed is women in positions of power in porn aka media moguls.

Jenna Jameson co-wrote a book,  "How to Make Love like a Porn Star:  A Cautionary Tale" .  There is very little information on how to make love like a porn star but the few sex tips she gives women readers are sure to make them very popular with their boyfriends or husbands.  She gives no tips to male readers on how to please women and Jenna knows how.  She attacked her girl-on-girl scenes with the relish of a someone who hasn't eaten in weeks and with the confidence of a 10 time Gold Medal Winner.

Terra Patrick has no sexy tips to share.  Her book, "Sinner Takes All: A Memoir of Love and Porn" is a sad book really but Patrick is a survivor and she is not throwing any pity parties.

Belladonna breaks down in tears  in an interview with Diane Sawyer.  Belladonna in a later statement made it clear she is no victim but in all these women's stories one has to wonder.   Before you click on Belladonna's website, just a word of warning...she is not for the weak of heart and you have to be over 18 years of age to enter.   Belladonna's website http://www.enterbelladonna.com/

Rather than take a waitress job these women took a different path which paid-off far more lucratively than the average service job for women.  Women still earn less than men but Jameson, Belladonna and Patrick are they exception. Only they can tell you if it was worth it.

Jameson has radically altered her appearance very much like Michael Jackson.  The Michael Jackson Syndrome signals all is not well.  Jameson had too much surgery and none was really ever needed.

The irony is Hollywood for many years has moved closer to the fine line between porn and mainstream movie /Independent film.   There is one difference between Hollywood and the porn industry and that is the AVN awards are far more interesting than the Oscars.  Okay, there is one more difference...the porn industry is far more honest than Hollywood.

Neither Hollywood or the Porn world are going away anytime soon.  There will continue to be a stronger presence of women behind the scenes in the porn industry in front and behind the camera. More young women entering the business now aim to become the next Jenna Jameson -- porn star and media mogul.

As soon as humans found a way to express themselves they documented sex starting with cave men and women.  http://www.dominicantoday.com/dr/this-and-that/2006/5/2/12982/Cave-paintings-show-aspects-of-sex-beyond-the-reproductive   Sexual displays have always been around and are here to stay.  With technology and the internet, sex has become every man/woman's potential expression even with average people who have had no surgery, bleaching, altering of their genitals posting on free sex porn sites but Jenna Jameson, Belladonna and Tera Patrick have made it bankable like no other women before them moving from in front the camera to media moguls.